This Is A General Message Targeted To All The Parents Of Today

This is not meant to hurt anyone or pinpoint on someone for their

upbringing. Its a general message targeted to all the parents of

today.

1. Going to your child's school dressed indecently?

Think again.

2. Speaking rashly to your child's teacher.

3. Cursing, using foul words or swearing in front of your

children.

4.Using makeup on children.

5.Dressing with tight clothes and indecently for children (they

loose the sense of their princesshood and may not listen to you

in future)

7. Your child holds the cup or glassware by the brim and you

don't make a correction.

8. Your children don't greet and you just feel they will come

around one day because they have a mood swing. (You will be

blamed for it)

9. Your children eat with their mouth opened and you feel they

will grow up some day.

10. Your children brought home something you did not buy for

them and you said nothing. (That is the beginning of stealing)

11. They talked back at you and you concluded it's okay since

you're a 21st century mummy. (You will hate yourself if they do

that outside and they are disciplined)

12. They interrupt when you are speaking with another adult and

you think they are bold and clever. (It's really bad manners)

13. They exercise authority over their nanny and domestic staff

and you let them be. (That is bad parenting)

14. They say things like "my driver is on his way..."

I am not an advocate that children should call your domestic staff

aunty or brother but, calling them by names when they are not

young people is not poise either. The use of Miss, Mr or Mrs will

look good on them.

15. Your children don't say- 'Thank you' when they have been

helped or served something. They don't know how to say "please"

when they need someone for help; and you are cool with that.

(Bad parenting)

16. When your children cannot stand children who are less

privileged.

18. When they pick their nose with their hands.

19. When they don't wash their hands after visiting the

washroom.

20. When your children take something from the fridge without

taking permission. (Bad parenting)

21. When your children don't knock on closed doors.

22. When your children don't collect from your hands the stuff

you brought in as you walk in through the door.

23. When your children ask for a bribe to carry out their home

chores or extra task. (That is )

24. When your children act like their grandparents are irritating

them.

25. When your children have not learnt to get up from the chair

for the elderly or visitors to sit.

26. When your child tells a lot of lies. (You will both cry in the

future if such is not put to check)

27. When your child asks "who is that?" at a knock on your

door instead of "please, who is there."

28. When your child is always seated by your visitors when

being served drinks etc.

29. When your children still point their fingers at other people.

30. When your children play and jump around when prayers are

going on. (age 4 above).

Don't be a 21st Century parent who cannot correct a child. Train

your child in the right way, so that when he grows up he will not

depart from it.

IT IS BETTER TO LET YOUR CHILDREN CRY AT AN EARLY AGE

WHEN YOU CORRECT THEM, IF NOT YOU WILL BOTH CRY AT

NIGHT WHEN THEY BRING DISGRACE TO THE FAMILY WITH Back 

AND TERRIBLE BEHAVIOURS!*

I pray that won't be your portion.

You can do well to circulate this piece to all parents and

grandparents that are on your contact list.

Thank you.